Sunday, December 19, 2010

A Scare


Before I launch into the story of the week, I thought I would post a video that I discovered about wiener dogs. Apparently I'm not half as bad in my love for dachshunds as some people.... :)

Anyway....

Friday afternoon I came home from work, as usual. Jody came over from the church and we sat down for lunch together. It was the end of another workweek, and that is always cause for celebration. :)

It was then that we noticed that Eu-mi was twisting backwards to check herself. Now, this can mean several things. Sometimes it's an indication that she needs to go outside and go potty. Or sometimes it's an indication that she needs to have her anal glands drained. (Sorry, this may be too much information, but it's true - all the joys of owning a dachshund.) So we decided to let her go outside and take care of business.

However, when we came back inside, we noticed that she was no longer her usual self. She was slow to want to jump up on furniture. She would sit down - almost involuntarily - and her lower back would twitch. She acted as though she in pain, though she didn't cry out, which is how she has usually conveyed pain in the past.

This made us very, very afraid. The reason is, dachshunds are known to struggle with something called Intervertebral Disc Disease, which basically means their backs are known to 'go out' and require surgery that can cost around $3,000. Obviously, Jody and I cannot afford that, so if Eu-mi's back goes out, we'll have to put her down. We didn't expect to have to deal with this so early on, though. Eu-mi just turned 2 years old this week, and dachshunds can live to be 15 plus years.

Anyway, the short version is: we decided to take Eu-mi to the vet. Our vet checked her out, affirmed that she was in pain in her lower back, and that x-rays would be needed to assess the damage. We left her for an hour or more, and of course I just cried in the car.

Though Eu-mi is just a dog, she has weaseled her way into my heart, and I love her so much! She has brought so much laughter and joy into our lives amidst the stresses of seminary, church ministry and health troubles.

We went back to the vet to pick her up to find out relatively good news. Her back had not blown out; she would not need surgery. However, she would need anti-inflammatories, muscle relaxants and crate-rest for about a month. Also, we discovered she was a little overweight at 14 1bs. Fourteen pounds! Holy mackerel! We also realized we'd need to change some things at home. No more crazy jumping off of furniture, twisting to catch toys, and a careful eye on her diet.

So yesterday, Jody decided to build Eu-mi a ramp. Yes! He finished it in one day with some wood from our backyard and leftover carpet from when our carpet was redone in the spring. This was the end result. GOOD WORK, JODY!


Please pray for us and for 'Baby Nation'. She needs to slow down, eat less, rest more, and use her ramp to get on and off the couch. Pray for quick learning!

Thursday, December 02, 2010

virginia: the week before thanksgiving, 2010

a few weeks ago i visited my family in virginia. it was wonderful! here are some snapshots from my week there. i...

got to see all of my siblings except chris and sister-in-law courtney. here i am with anna, rebekah, josh and luke (with little jane!).

saw beautiful fall colors, even though it was mid/late november. i love the virginia foliage!

met anna's boyfriend nate. so glad to finally meet him and encouraged in anna's choice in boys. :) he's a keeper, i think!

tried to catch up with anna when she wasn't working (at VIGS), going to school, at youth group, leading FCA at clover hill, doing homework, going to the youth retreat... or sleeping. in short, i grabbed her when i could!

tasted some of rebekah's amazing homemade salsa. VERY IMPRESSIVE, bekah!

got to meet, feed, hold and hang out with beautiful baby jane! what cutie!! SO MUCH FUN!

tried to keep up with rascal, miss 4 year old chloe! i love that little stinker and cannot believe how much she looks like her great-aunt conway and second cousin katherine!

watched the boys as they were up to their usual mischief. i am so glad they're still young enough to hug aunt ruth, though. there were several hugs.

spent quality time with bekah on several occasions. rare, special quality time. so, so thankful for my dear sister. i love you, rebekah!

met and hung out with my new friend, rebekah, who is now the adopted 6th daughter in the clementson family (after courtney). so much fun. LOVE LOVE LOVE her!

went to CNU in newport news, va to see sarah at her college. i also saw her amazing dorm room (AKA palace!), her roomie rachel, who was also a high school friend.

met sarah's boyfriend, justin. loved staying late with him and sarah on saturday night, asking them questions and getting to know justin for the first time and sarah all over again!

got much-needed and updated photos of sarah and me. so, so proud of her and the decisions she is making with her life. LOVE YOU, SARAH!

got great pictures of all of us!


spent ridiculous hours hanging out with rebekah at the house, watching football, looking at her modeling pictures online, having sleepovers, eating food late at night, and just having a grand old time!


hung out with my wonderful brother luke! i am so proud of him, because he has been asked by The Mile High Report, a blog that is run by fans of the Denver Broncos, to be an online commentator! i am so, so proud of luke! to check out his posts, click on the links below. (prepare to be blown away by his statistical geniusness!!)

http://www.milehighreport.com/2010/11/30/1846608/statistical-analysis-what-do-the-numbers-say-about-denver#storyjump

http://www.milehighreport.com/2010/11/26/1835639/break-it-down-st-louis-denver

http://www.milehighreport.com/2010/11/18/1821113/break-it-down-denver-broncos-san-diego-chargers


i am only sad that i was not able to grab pictures with my brother daniel, nor of my good friends lindsey, jacque, melissa and lauren. all in all, though, it was a wonderfully memorable trip, and i am so thankful that jody allowed me to go.

Wednesday, December 01, 2010

my trip to va

these days i'm having a crisis. and it has everything to do with the word "home". i don't know where mine is anymore, and it causes a bit of consternation when i am telling people about my trip back to virginia. before i went, i wanted to say, "i'm going home!" and then i would invariably second-guess myself and wonder, "is virginia my home still?" or is it now in colorado?

jody says that his home is wherever i am. it's one of the things he says that endears him the most to me, partly because i know he truly means it. and i often tell myself that he's probably right. since leaving home for college at 17, i have lived in 6 places during college (3 places my last semester), 3 places in korea, and 3 places in colorado (not to mention months of living out of boxes in our families' homes in between korea and colorado. that's a lot of moving. i haven't lived anywhere for longer than a year in a decade. and there's no promise of it ending come may when jody graduates. moving has become a way of life for me, and it does get a bit wearisome.

now that i live in colorado, it is tempting for me to idealize the first few years of my life that i spent here in colorado. born in denver, i lived the first 5 years of my life in arvada, about 30-45 minutes away from where i live now. when i look at my baby book and the baby books of my older siblings, i see pictures of us in strollers at the denver zoo, sitting on outhouse potties way up in the mountains, and watching football with all of mom and dad's friends from their college and career group from church. i grew up with a family that faithfully roots for the denver broncos and where it's almost sacrilege to assume that God supports any team but the broncos. :)

and not to forget the mountains. i love the mountains! jody and i just bought our first tent, and we want to use it.... A LOT. we got a cool thermos and coleman camp grill for $12 from the goodwill behind our house, and now we want to car camp and use those amazing finds! we love backpacking, and there are yet so many places i want to visit and things i want to do here in this beautiful state.

but then i think of virginia, and i get all warm and fuzzy inside. i think of sunday park and the hours my siblings and i used to spend there. i think of all my family, of home school, of middle and high school, and of william & mary and the amazing lifelong friends i met during the college season. i miss virginia's trees and the greenery. i even miss the humidity a bit (yep... the cracked heels and nosebleeds do get a bit old).

so as i went back to virginia a few weeks ago to see my family, and the inevitable questions came about where jody and i would be in the next season of our lives, i found myself thinking about what it would be like to move back to virginia. it was almost like trying on an old pair of jeans. do they still fit? have my hips gotten wider? has my butt stayed toned? or is it time to go with a new pair? :) surprisingly, i found that as i mulled over moving back home (should a job be available for jody), the thought was a happy one.

jody has one semester left, and with this 'end date' in sight we are very prayerful about where God is calling us. my heart is open. i am truly content to stay here in colorado and to continue to forge a life for us here. i am content to go back to virginia to be close to my family or to texas to be closer to jody's family. i am preparing myself for the potential of moving to a totally new state where we have no familial connections, and having to create a whole new world for ourselves there (just as we have - to some extent - right here in colorado).

where the Lord leads, i know He will be faithful to lead us, provide for us, and prove Himself mighty in our lives. and i know that wherever He leads me will, i guess, be home.